Stop Saying “Fine”

“How are you?”“Fine.” Every conversation between casual acquaintances I am guilty of ignoring my feelings and robotically saying “fine” when asked how I am. It’s a habit. It’s a wall. It’s a lie. I don’t mean to lie. I don’t consider myself a liar. But we can’t be “fine” all the time…hell, I don’t actuallyContinue reading “Stop Saying “Fine””

Our Lives Are Big

The other day an incredible author, roxane gay @rgay, on Twitter posted that this pandemic has been hell on her wedding planning. She then called that small. My heart broke. Weddings are huge. For some people their wedding is the ultimate big event of their lives, the thing they’ve been planning in some form sinceContinue reading “Our Lives Are Big”